Tosa Together Hopes to Create a City Where Everyone Feels They Belong
Segregation comes with borders, whether they are manmade - 124th Street, the dividing line between Milwaukee and Waukesha counties, or natural - the Milwaukee River. Today, WUWM reports on one particular border, and how some people feel about crossing it.
“There’s still that sort of almost invisible, but known barrier," Lynne Woehrle says. She’s a sociologist and a founding member of the group Tosa Together. The invisible barrier she’s talking about is 60th Street around North Avenue—the dividing line between Wauwatosa and Milwaukee.
“When I first moved to the Milwaukee area, as a newcomer I was very struck first by how people talked about that border,” Woehrle says.
She says for some people the line represents the border between neighborhoods perceived as safe, and neighborhoods perceived as dangerous. Woehrle has also sensed an “us versus them” mentality, in every way—class, race and ethnicity, religion.
Yet outside of that political realm, she says, the border only holds as much power as individuals give it. “I live a half a block outside of Milwaukee. I’ve got neighbors right up the street that live in Milwaukee."
Woehrle helped start the group Tosa Together in hopes that people will begin to view greater Milwaukee as a region, instead of silos.
It’s often as simple as inviting people to come together to talk. On this day, Tosa Together was hosting a black history program at the Wauwatosa Library.
The audience was mostly white, but there were a number of people of color, including 17-year-old Khari Rodgers.
Rodgers grew up on 46th and Burleigh in Milwaukee, not that far from the Tosa border. Then about four years ago, the family moved to Wauwatosa.
"Sometime it's terrifying and sometimes it's the best thing in the world. I want to say terrifying because you're afraid to make a mistake. You're afraid to be what they expect you to be."
“Sometime it’s terrifying and sometimes it’s the best thing in the world. I want to say terrifying because you’re afraid to make a mistake. You’re afraid to be what they expect you to be. And I want to say the best thing in the world because I know that I probably wouldn’t know the things that I know or be able to do the things that I do if it weren’t for being with that kid. Seeing him succeed so well and making me want to do that because I feel like he thinks I can’t do that,” Rodgers says.
Rodgers says that while there aren’t many black people in his neighborhood, most everyone has been kind. Still, he says he had at least one run in with racism while recording a video in his Wauwatosa neighborhood with some of his black friends.
“So we got the camera out," he explains. "We’re walking through the forest system and stuff like that. The fact that so many (white) people were afraid of us being in the forest like that…like there were runners. The police pulled up and said the joggers are saying that they’re afraid to go through the forest because they think you guys are back here smoking weed."
Rodgers says he’ll never forget that day.
“I’m 14. Like if you look over the river, you’ll see my house and they didn’t believe me. Like we had to go to my house, knock on the door, is this your son? That was probably the most embarrassing thing I ever felt,” he says.
Lynne Woehrle with Tosa Together says she hopes her organization can help create the greater Milwaukee community of the future.
“Wauwatosa still has a lot of work to do. As a resident, I feel I can easily say we have a lot of work to do,” she says. One where everyone, no matter color, religion, economic status – or age, feels welcomed – and a shared sense of ownership.
For more on this topic, explore our Project Milwaukee: Segregation Matters series.
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